But in south-west, it had been for example we love handle narratives, right? That doesn’t not make me polyamorous. Right. Or many people pick since monogamous, plus they are cheating all over the place. They’re away from monogamous. What i’m saying is, mathematically, that is what we might state is actually the majority of people espouse monogamy and you will usually do not in fact practice they. Which is very actual. Yeah. Therefore what is all of our actual routines? What is actually all of our actual existed sense? After which how do we pick and exactly how congruent or not are the ones anything?